LOVE OR LUST ...........

Love or lust .. what you have on me...........!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was thinking thinking thinking after reading your mail..............!!!!!!!!!!!


It gave me a jerk................but what is this........ is it love or lust...............???????

signs of lust

***totally focused on the person's look and body
***interested in having sex but not in having conversation.....
***keep the relationship on a fantasy level not discuss real feeling
***leave soon after sex rather than cuddling 
*** lovers but not  friends.

signs of love

***  wants to spend quality time together other than sex
*** get lost in conversation and forget about the hours.
*** wants to listen honestly each others feeling and make each other's happy
*** motivates to be a better person
*** wants to get to meet his or her family or friends .

I decided it is lust.

stop stop ..... it will ruin the life.

so get away.

bye bye bye......................

LOVE, RELATION, GROWTH.........

** Try your best to love your partner unconditionally even if it seems hard not to be selfish.

** Think from your partner’s perspective when it comes to matters of the heart.

** End an argument as soon as possible, even if hugging your partner is the last thing on your mind.

** Make love regularly, but never allot times for it. Scheduling a time for sex makes it a chore that can start to become a bore.

** Communicate with each other and grow together in love, but never grow apart with lack of communication as the years pass by.

** Learn to give space to each other to become better individuals. Even the closest of relationships need some alone time to miss each other now and then.

**Never take each other for granted. This is the easiest way to fall prey to affairs and arguments.

** Say a white lie when you need to, especially if it’s a little lie that won’t change your relationship, but will make your partner feel happy.

** Never shy away from positive criticism. As long as you say it in a constructive manner, it’ll help your partner become a better person.

** Be the shoulder to lean on, no matter what. Tough times are the most testing phases of a relationship. Stand by your partner, and when the storm ends, love will shine brighter.

** Never argue in public, but indulge in public display of affection.

** Date each other even if you’ve been together for years. It keeps the love alive.

** Look sexy for each other, and that includes a flat tummy. Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you should let yourself go and look shabby.

** Compliment your partner, even if it’s a regular chore or habit. Compliments are the best way to thank a special someone for the effort they’ve taken for you, however small it may be.

** Celebrate the special days. Birthdays and anniversaries may repeat itself too many times, but it’s these milestones that create memories.

** Never intentionally try to make your partner feel bad or look bad. It’ll leave a lasting scar that can hurt the relationship.

** Learn to forgive without holding grudges. As hard as it may be, forgiveness is one of the qualities of true love that matters most in a relationship.

** Respect your partner whole heartedly.

** Understand that your partner can have crushes on others too. It’s a difficult thought, but if you admire someone else, so can your partner.

**Trust your partner and your instincts, even if others say otherwise.

** Never grumble or badmouth each other even if you’re tempted to, out of anger or frustration.

** Learn to spend quality time with each other. There’s no better way to fall more in love with each other as the relationship grows.

** Behave like children now and then. A few pillow fights or cute wrestles can never hurt anyone. But it can help both of you enjoy the relationship.

** Be spontaneous with your affections. Don’t always wait for special occasions or moments to express your love. Spontaneous surprises are always happier than planned surprises.

** Whatever works! No relationship is alike. Instead of learning from someone else’s relationship, learn from your own relationship’s successes and failures.

WHERE IS HAPPINESS?

Where is happiness?.....

 how the happiness will come?......

A beautiful expensively dressed lady who complained to her psychiatrist that she felt that her whole life was empty, it had no meaning.  So the lady went to visit a counselor to seek our happiness.......

The counselor called over the old lady who cleaned the office floors.  The counselor then said to the rich lady " I'm going to ask her to tell you how she found happiness.  All I want you to do is listen to her.........

"so the old lady put down her broom and sat on a chair and told her story":::.......

Well my husband died on malaria and three months later my only son was killed by a car... I had nobody..... I had nothing left....!!!!

couldn't sleep.... I couldn't eat.... I never smiled at anyone.  I even thought of taking my own life.  

Then one evening a little kitten followed me home from work.  Somehow I felt sorry for that kitten.  It was cold outside.  So I decided to let the kitten in. I got it some milk and the kitten licked the plate clean.  Then it purred and rubbed against my leg and for the first time in months, I smiled.  Then I stopped to think, if helping a little kitten could make me smile, may be doing something for people could make me happy.

So the next day I baked some biscuits and took them to a neighbor who was sick in bed.  

Every I tried to do something nice for someone.  It made me so happy to see them happy.

Today I do not know of anybody who sleeps and eats better than I do, I've found happiness by giving it to others........

"When she heard that the rich lady cried......

SHE HAD EVERYTHING THAT MONEY COULD BUY,

BUT SHE HAD LOST THE THINGS WHICH MONEY CANNOT BUY.

SO.......HAPPINESS COMES FROM GIVING.........

WE LOVED .. BECAUSE OF ILLAYARAJA SIR

When we both met first time we cannot able to cooperate with each other.  At that I used to hear Ilayaraja sir's song. When I met Sneha's sister she too fond of Ilayaraja sir, so she told sneha about my interest and the love started.


This was the message given by prasanna about sneha.


He gave a watch to sneha on valentine's day.


IN SNEHA'S HAND PRASANNA

YOU ARE SO SPECIAL

LAST NIGHT
THINKING OF YOU
A TEAR ROLLED OUT
I
ASKED
WHY ARE YOU OUT
TEAR SAID
THERE IS SOME ONE
SO
SPECIAL IN
YOUR EYES,
THERE IS
NO
PLACE
FOR
ME

YOU ARE SO SO SPECIAL