LOVE OR LUST ...........

Love or lust .. what you have on me...........!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was thinking thinking thinking after reading your mail..............!!!!!!!!!!!


It gave me a jerk................but what is this........ is it love or lust...............???????

signs of lust

***totally focused on the person's look and body
***interested in having sex but not in having conversation.....
***keep the relationship on a fantasy level not discuss real feeling
***leave soon after sex rather than cuddling 
*** lovers but not  friends.

signs of love

***  wants to spend quality time together other than sex
*** get lost in conversation and forget about the hours.
*** wants to listen honestly each others feeling and make each other's happy
*** motivates to be a better person
*** wants to get to meet his or her family or friends .

I decided it is lust.

stop stop ..... it will ruin the life.

so get away.

bye bye bye......................

nenaithu nenaithu parthal.............................

VERY VERY TOUCHY SONG.  IT IS IN MY EVERY LASTING MEMORY.  YOU CAN ALSO HEAR AND FEEL.


LOVE.....................................

LOVE, RELATION, GROWTH.........

** Try your best to love your partner unconditionally even if it seems hard not to be selfish.

** Think from your partner’s perspective when it comes to matters of the heart.

** End an argument as soon as possible, even if hugging your partner is the last thing on your mind.

** Make love regularly, but never allot times for it. Scheduling a time for sex makes it a chore that can start to become a bore.

** Communicate with each other and grow together in love, but never grow apart with lack of communication as the years pass by.

** Learn to give space to each other to become better individuals. Even the closest of relationships need some alone time to miss each other now and then.

**Never take each other for granted. This is the easiest way to fall prey to affairs and arguments.

** Say a white lie when you need to, especially if it’s a little lie that won’t change your relationship, but will make your partner feel happy.

** Never shy away from positive criticism. As long as you say it in a constructive manner, it’ll help your partner become a better person.

** Be the shoulder to lean on, no matter what. Tough times are the most testing phases of a relationship. Stand by your partner, and when the storm ends, love will shine brighter.

** Never argue in public, but indulge in public display of affection.

** Date each other even if you’ve been together for years. It keeps the love alive.

** Look sexy for each other, and that includes a flat tummy. Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you should let yourself go and look shabby.

** Compliment your partner, even if it’s a regular chore or habit. Compliments are the best way to thank a special someone for the effort they’ve taken for you, however small it may be.

** Celebrate the special days. Birthdays and anniversaries may repeat itself too many times, but it’s these milestones that create memories.

** Never intentionally try to make your partner feel bad or look bad. It’ll leave a lasting scar that can hurt the relationship.

** Learn to forgive without holding grudges. As hard as it may be, forgiveness is one of the qualities of true love that matters most in a relationship.

** Respect your partner whole heartedly.

** Understand that your partner can have crushes on others too. It’s a difficult thought, but if you admire someone else, so can your partner.

**Trust your partner and your instincts, even if others say otherwise.

** Never grumble or badmouth each other even if you’re tempted to, out of anger or frustration.

** Learn to spend quality time with each other. There’s no better way to fall more in love with each other as the relationship grows.

** Behave like children now and then. A few pillow fights or cute wrestles can never hurt anyone. But it can help both of you enjoy the relationship.

** Be spontaneous with your affections. Don’t always wait for special occasions or moments to express your love. Spontaneous surprises are always happier than planned surprises.

** Whatever works! No relationship is alike. Instead of learning from someone else’s relationship, learn from your own relationship’s successes and failures.

HARVEST HAPPINESS

Cultivating with the seeds of gratitude, 

we can harvest happiness.

"Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. 

It turns what we have into enough, and more. 

It turns denial into acceptance, 

chaos to order, 

confusion to clarity. 

It can turn a meal into a feast, 

a house into a home, 

a stranger into a friend. 

Gratitude makes sense of our past, 

brings peace for today, 

and creates a vision for tomorrow. "

AISHWARYA & AARADHYA IN BIG B'S BDAY PARTY

LAST NIGHT Legendary superstar Amitab Bachchan's 

70th birthday party.

His family organised a gala bash for the actor at Film 

City, Mumbai.    There are many celebrities at the party, 

but the center of attraction none other than the "Bachchan  

Bahu" Aiswarya Rai Bachchan.  

She looked stunning in a golden colour anarkali

In the last few days, a lot has been already said about her 

weight.

Well.... do not know about the critics.  But a look at Ash's 

current looks makes us wait for her comeback badly....

AVOID THESE FOODS .....IF YOU ARE A DIABETIC

Now a days diabetic is affecting our health very much.

We can avoid the following foods and keep our diabetic under control and enjoy the healthy and tasty life.

** RESTAURANT FRENCH FRIES
** HAMBURGERS AND CHICKEN AND FISH SANDWICHES
** FRIEND CHICKEN
** PURCHASED COOKIES
** PURCHASED DOUGHNUTS AND BAKED GOODS
** CAKES & PIES

**FROZEN MEALS
**PROCESSED LUNCH MEAT
**REGULAR SOFT DRINKS
** FLAVORED WATER
**PURCHASED SMOOTHIES
** PURCHASED FRUIT BREWERIES

** MILK SHAKES
**FROZEN PIZZAS
** RESTAURANT PIZZAS

EAT WHAT YOU LOVE

WALK YOUR WAY TO A WHOLE NEW YOU

LOSING WEIGHT
LOWERING YOUR CHOLESTEROL
FEELING GREAT IS EASIER

WALK EAT AND ENJOY YOUR LIFE.................

HAPPINESS

H .. HOPES ON FUTURE

A.. AIMS IN LIFE

P.. PLEASING ATTITUDE

P .. PEACEFUL MIND

Y ..  YOUNG IN THOUGHTS

Happiness is the pleasant state of mind where a 

person feels so relaxed and peaceful. Happiness is a 

mental or emotional state being happy with a 

pleasant and peaceful mind. Happiness plays a very 

important role in increasing life span of a human 

being. Happiness is the one sole thing that everyone 

wishes to have. Happiness is hard to define for 

people who think that happiness comes only through 

luck and nothing can make them happy if they are 

not lucky. "Happiness is a feeling which is 

generated when some expectation is fulfilled."And 

you can for all time decide to change that 

expectation.